Love is like candied fruit, bittersweet, making you feel exceptionally happy.
Initially, love is passionate, making women yearn and fantasize. But only when you’re together can you truly see how much a man loves you.
Love reveals itself in the details of everyday life.
You can tell whether a man loves you or not.
Love or lack thereof, it’s not that hard to guess. How he treats you will make it clear. One crucial point can prove that a man doesn’t love you: never taking the initiative to share responsibilities.
A man who doesn’t love you never takes the initiative to share responsibilities
A friend shared an experience of her relationship with her husband.
It was simple: when she got the flu, she fell ill and took a day off to rest at home.
After feeling a bit better, she tidied up the house and prepared dinner for when her husband returned.
When her husband came home and saw the simple meal she had prepared—just noodles and a light stir-fry—he was not pleased. He said, “I worked hard all day, and you serve me this?”
Her emotions collapsed instantly, and she burst into tears. She went to the bedroom, too upset to eat.
In the middle of the night, when their child cried, she saw her husband playing games on the sofa, and her heart sank.
Seeing the unwashed dishes on the table, she realized her husband never shared the burdens with her, as if all the trivial matters at home should be her responsibility alone.
At that moment, she suddenly felt that her husband truly didn’t love her.
A man who doesn’t love a woman only thinks about himself in marriage, only considers his own tiredness and needs for better care, without ever caring about his wife’s situation.
He doesn’t care if she’s tired or in pain, nor will he take the initiative to share the household chores.
Not understanding the need to share household responsibilities, he believes his wife should take care of the home and do all the chores.
Roland said:
When you truly love someone, you forget about your own joys and sorrows and only care about the other person’s joys and sorrows.
A man who truly loves you will make an effort to share. He will strive to take on more responsibilities and proactively give more for you.
A man who loves you will take the initiative to share life’s trivialities
My best friend’s boyfriend might seem cool and aloof, but when he’s with her, he always takes care of her.
To improve their relationship, he diligently learns to do household chores and takes on some of life’s trivialities.
For example, he willingly takes on cooking and dishwashing.
When visiting her family, he voluntarily helps out, not to impress her family but because he genuinely believes it’s the right thing to do.
A man who truly loves you doesn’t want to see you overwhelmed by household tasks.
He will make an effort to share the housework, hoping you can live comfortably without rough hands from chores and with a genuine smile on your face.
He will eagerly take on many tasks, expressing his love through actions.
In this world, no one is dumber than the other. Some will yield to you, some will endure for you, some will support you unconditionally, all because of deep feelings.
Being able to share household responsibilities, willing to clean challenging areas like the kitchen and bathroom, lightening your load through actions.
The more a man loves you, the more he will proactively share household chores and trivial matters to make your life easier.
A man who loves you will earnestly share the pressures of life.
We are all lonely until we meet someone who shows us life doesn’t have to be lonely.
A man’s love actually lies in the details.
For example: he knows you lost your job and are under financial pressure, so he will cleverly help you in many ways without making you feel indebted.
Seeing you struggle with something, he will actively research strategies, offer advice, and help you out of trouble.
When he sees you’re tired, he knows what you still need to do and will quietly do it for you, giving you more time to rest.
He becomes proactive, always noticing your distress and anxiety, extending a helping hand first to soothe your frustrations.
The more a man loves you, the more he will earnestly share the pressures of life, allowing you to live calmly.
With him around, you’ll feel at ease, unafraid of anything, and have the courage to face any challenge.
In life, a man who burdens you with all the stresses, choosing to ignore your hardships, doesn’t truly love you.
A man who doesn’t love you won’t share.
He doesn’t see how much you’ve done for him, nor does he care about your struggles. He turns a blind eye to the pressures you endure.
Such a man doesn’t hold you in his heart; he only wants your love without understanding how to love you.
Women, make sure to spend the rest of your life with a man who knows how to express love. Don’t just listen to what he says, but see how he treats you and how much he’s willing to give.