Love is like a glass of fine wine, everyone wants to taste it.
If you don’t control yourself and drink too much, too quickly, being overly greedy, you’ll end up feeling miserable.
Maybe there’s a euphoric feeling when drinking, but afterwards, you’ll feel physically uncomfortable, mentally confused, and emotionally empty.
To love someone, you need to slowly understand their character, their abilities, especially their attitude towards relationships.
If a man is unfaithful and too flirtatious, it’s time to cut ties.
To determine if a man is flirtatious, look at his circle.
A Flirtatious Man Has Many “Girlfriends” Around Him
A flirtatious man accepts all. Everyone has a chance to get close to him, surrounded by beautiful women.
A friend has an admirer who sends her ambiguous messages every day, wanting to go on a date with her.
He insists, and the friend is slightly tempted. But at a gathering, she sees many young and pretty girls greeting him.
He acts very familiar with everyone, saying intimate things to several girls. When he sees my friend, his expression changes, then he comes over to explain: “They are all just ‘girlfriends’.”
The friend’s heart sinks, luckily the relationship hasn’t started. She blocks him when she gets home, cutting off all contact.
A man who is loose and intimate with everyone doesn’t know how to truly love someone.
Love is bittersweet. Love between two is sweet; among three, it’s sour; casual love leads to toxicity.
Those who treat love as a game likely have a long list of “girlfriends” in their contacts.
He can chat with anyone, surrounded by numerous “girlfriends,” making it easy for him to be fickle and unable to provide security to a woman.
A Flirtatious Man’s Acquaintances Are Also Flirtatious
You can tell what kind of person someone is by looking at their friends.
Friends reflect who a person is. A person’s character matches the friends they keep.
Just as those who seek fame and fortune won’t be friends with those who value a higher spiritual level and are content with modesty.
Someone who treats love as a game will also be friends with such people.
A flirtatious man will have many unfaithful male friends around him because they share the same attitude towards relationships.
They might even think that the more girlfriends someone has, the more capable and charming they are.
A flirtatious man won’t have many faithful male friends around him. The more flirtatious he is, the more likely his buddies treat relationships casually.
Those who are faithful and loyal in love will disdain those who don’t treasure their feathers and act recklessly in relationships, keeping their distance.
A Flirtatious Man Has Many Ex-Girlfriends
To know if a man is flirtatious, look at his past relationships.
If he has many ex-girlfriends, it shows his fleeting attitude towards relationships.
A flirtatious man changes partners frequently, likes to experiment, but doesn’t understand what true love is.
Being with such a man is tiring. Once a woman gives her all to a flirtatious man, she will be deeply hurt by his inconsistency.
A relationship without loyalty and trust as its foundation will struggle to blossom into something beautiful and fruitful.
Men with many ex-girlfriends should not be loved easily. Love someone faithful and discerning. Such a man is more responsible and loyal in relationships.
Women, no matter how much you love someone, don’t give your heart to a flirtatious man.
The saying goes:
If love is self-serving, it’s not true love, but a desire.
If you find a man frequently disappearing inexplicably, not speaking the truth, leaving you for some “girlfriend,” it shows he doesn’t care much about you.
If a man’s friends are flirtatious, extend your evaluation period. Don’t fall for a man who doesn’t take relationships seriously, thinking you’re different.
Loving a flirtatious man will only lead to being hurt deeply in the end.