Love can be expressed through details.
Even though it’s intangible, the difference between love and not loving is extremely clear.
If a man loves you, he will do these two things.
These two things are enough to prove his heart.
No matter if he has money or not, he is willing to spend money on you.
I watched a TV drama once.
The female lead in the drama loved being pretty and dressing up, so even if she didn’t eat or drink, she would set aside money to buy new clothes for herself.
A man liked her, but it was just superficial.
He liked the female lead’s beauty but kept telling her that buying clothes was too expensive, suggesting she should be more frugal.
In the end, the two didn’t end up together, and the female lead ended up with another man.
Although the other man was the antagonist in the drama, he was genuinely good to the female lead, always keeping her preferences in mind, giving her necklaces, giving her nice clothes, even if he was down and out, he wouldn’t want to see the woman unhappy.
A reader once commented that if two people are financially equal, the female lead would still prefer and be willing to be with the man who fulfills her preferences.
Because love is never about satisfying oneself, but about loving someone and wanting to fulfill them.
In many relationships, money can be a way to fulfill each other.
Although talking about money is considered tacky, money can test one’s true intentions.
If a man really likes you, he will be willing to spend money on you, not for his own pleasure, but genuinely to make you happy.
Whether he has money or not, he will try his best to satisfy you, even if he can’t do it very smoothly. He won’t deny your insistence, as this is a way for a man to show his extreme love for you.
No matter his mood, he is patient with you.
When I broke up with my ex, the reason was simple.
We went out together, and by nightfall, we couldn’t find a place to stay. Being unfamiliar with the place, my friends and I searched the map on our phones slowly to find accommodation.
Time ticked away, and everyone started getting anxious.
However, encountering any situation while traveling is very normal. So I thought my ex could understand, and I tried to comfort him not to worry.
But he immediately exploded in anger, blaming me for insisting on coming here, saying I didn’t know how to plan. I felt wronged. Why should a woman be responsible for planning everything when traveling?
I didn’t even complain about him not knowing how to take care of people, yet I was the one being blamed.
After breaking up, I met my husband, and a similar situation occurred.
One night, he was asleep, and because I wasn’t familiar with the place, I accidentally knocked a cup off the bedside table, breaking it.
He woke up due to the noise, and I thought he would scold me. But to my surprise, the first thing he cared about was whether I was hurt, and he quickly picked me up from the floor and put me back on the bed.
How a person treats you isn’t just about their attitude towards you when they are in a good mood, but also about whether they can take care of your feelings when they are feeling low.
This ultimately determines whether, in the long journey of life, they bring you happiness or sorrow.
I once read this sentence:
Falling in love with someone doesn’t mean you have to be cautious when you are with them, but you can be yourself at ease by their side.
Every detail when two people are together is a way of interaction.
Someone who loves you will fulfill you.
They will fulfill your preferences and your happiness.
Someone who loves you will care about you.
They will care about your feelings and won’t easily trouble you.
Love and not loving, deep or shallow, are all in the details.