Loving someone cannot be disguised. If there’s no love, even if sweet words are said, the emotion is cold.
One clear way to judge love is through one’s attitude towards money. It reflects the level of love.
Money holds importance in one’s heart and reveals true intentions.
A man who doesn’t love you won’t spend money
A friend’s boyfriend, a rich kid, spends generously to impress and make himself happy.
He splurges on fancy restaurants and designer bags to win over the friend, without hesitation.
Once he has her, he stops spending willingly.
Planning to disappear from her life, he hesitates when she asks for money in an emergency, showing his true colors.
A man who spends on you may not truly love you. It could just be for his pleasure.
Instead, a man who willingly spends on you when needed shows genuine care, prioritizing you over money.
Will he openly discuss money matters with you?
When my husband and I started dating, I could sense his reluctance, causing uncertainty.
I decided to talk to him about it, to understand his reasons.
He confessed about his lack of savings and fear of not providing a better life for me.
His uncertain future plans made him anxious about protecting our future home.
I felt a mix of disappointment and admiration.
He didn’t pretend to be wealthy or deceive me about his situation before marriage, which earned my trust.
I expressed my understanding, sensing his willingness to bring more certainty into our relationship.
Money isn’t the sole measure of true love, but it gauges emotional depth.
If a man loves you, his present and future attitudes towards you will be clear.
He will treat your matters as his own, readily offering money when needed.
He will ponder money’s significance in life, ensuring he can provide you with a better life.
Though love shouldn’t revolve around money, practicality matters.
A man who plans and manages expenses with you sincerely is more valuable than one who only talks big, showing genuine care.