A man, no matter how tough or wicked, will be afraid if a woman does the following 3 things I’m about to mention, especially the second one.
The first killer move for women: sweet words with a tough heart!
Real toughness in women has one characteristic: a tough heart. Being soft is useless. Everyone says women are the most emotional creatures, but I disagree.
If a man doesn’t repeatedly disappoint you, how can you become the crazy woman in his eyes?
But what’s most feared? After a man makes a mistake, if you either throw a tantrum or compromise, these two tactics won’t work. They reveal our weaknesses.
What does throwing a tantrum reveal? It shows we have needs. Compromising shows you can’t live without him. How could a man fear you then?
So, what does sweet words with a tough heart mean? Whatever he says, “Yes, you’re right,” but stay firm inside and soft-spoken outside.
The second thing: focus on the results in situations
Many women focus on attitude in situations, but let me tell you, attitude is the least reliable.
For example, if a man is nice to you before marriage, you think he’ll be nice after marriage. Attitude seems right. If a man makes a mistake after marriage, apologizes with a good attitude, will he really change in the future?
So, focus only on the results, on actions. Let me tell you a phrase: if a man’s apology doesn’t involve cars, houses, or money,
then no matter how genuine and heartfelt it is, it’s just empty words. Remember that.
The third thing: live for yourself
What does it mean to live for yourself? Is it about loving yourself? In 8 words: “Listen to my heart, I matter most.”
Many women suffer in a relationship, to the point where they start thinking: “It’s fine if I’m in pain, as long as the child is okay. It’s okay if I’m a bit tired, as long as the husband is fine.”
Then you realize, you’ve taken care of everyone except yourself, and those you cared for end up hurting you in return.
So, in this world, you matter most. Why do I suffer in relationships? Let me tell you a story: I used to have one fish that died, I was very sad. Now I have a tank of fish, one dies, I don’t even know which one. Do you understand now?