Is a Man’s True Feelings Towards His Wife Evident at a Glance? These 3 Points Cannot be Disguised
A successful man, no matter how busy, will prioritize 3 things for his wife above making money.
“A hundred years to build a boat, a thousand years to share a pillow.” Two strangers, unrelated by blood, gradually form a new family and become one due to their love for each other.
A smart man will cherish this rare fate, be grateful for his wife’s dedication to the family, work together with his wife to manage their little family with care, and maintain the relationship between the two.
In marriage, a smart man treats women kindly, giving them more care and thoughtfulness, providing the emotional and spiritual support women desire. He shows more concern and care in daily life for his wife and is willing to do everything to ensure her happiness.
In marriage, the men who truly make women happy mostly do these three things.
Patiently Listen to a Woman’s Voice
Tagore once said: Listening is part of love because when you love someone, you listen to their voice.
Smart men know that communication is crucial in marriage. Effective communication doesn’t always involve giving a lot of advice but rather listening, empathizing with a woman’s voice, and understanding the emotions she expresses from an uneasy state.
I have a colleague who lives apart from her husband, and now their children are already in elementary school, yet their relationship is still very good.
Once, we asked her, “You and Mr. Liu don’t see each other often. How come your relationship is so good?”
After hearing our question, my colleague first awkwardly smiled, evaded for a while, but couldn’t resist the repeated questioning from a few young colleagues. She then shyly said, “It’s nothing much, really. It’s just that he responds to every little thing I tell him. He also tells me about every little thing in his life.”
At that time, we were chatting when suddenly my colleague’s phone rang several times in a row, it was a message on WeChat. She glanced at her phone, and a smile unconsciously appeared on her face.
We teased her, and she openly shared their affectionate messages with us. As we leaned in to take a look, the chat content was quite simple.
“Honey, I will be coming home today. What do you want to eat?”
“I heard from my colleague that this cake shop has good cakes. I will bring one for you when I come back.” Below was a cute little rabbit-shaped cake.
“This little bunny has a surprise inside, hahaha.”
Their chat records contained no solemn vows or sweet nothings, but these ordinary daily shares inexplicably made people envious.
There is a saying that goes, “Happiness is finding someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense and spend the rest of your life with you.”
Patiently listening to a woman’s voice is key to building trust and understanding.
Sometimes, when women pour out their troubles to their husbands, they may just want to vent and not necessarily seek a solution, but simply seek understanding and support from you.
So, gentlemen, when your wife complains about work, talks about the children, discusses trivial matters, or shares her thoughts, please listen attentively, do not brush it off, do not complain.
Busy work and trivial housework can fill a person’s heart with resentment. Patient communication between two people will be a healing balm, making each other feel cared for and supported, letting the unhappiness flow away with the venting, leaving only love for the family.
Pay Attention to a Woman’s Emotional Needs
It’s like a boy and a girl going out to eat, ordering two bowls of noodles, and the girl tells the boy, “This noodles isn’t good.”
The girl talks a lot, but the boy absentmindedly replies, “Then don’t come next time.” The girl feels wronged, cries, and says, “You don’t love me at all.”
Many people online and in videos are just as confused as the boy, not knowing what’s wrong with the girl.
In fact, it’s not the boy’s fault. This is because the physiological differences between men and women determine their different ways of thinking.
When a girl says the noodles aren’t good, she mostly wants attention, she wants the boy to see her new hairstyle for the day or the new nail art she did. But the boy simply thinks the noodles aren’t good.
Women naturally have more emotional needs than boys. Therefore, in the family, do not try to reason with your wife.
Home is a place for love, not for reasoning. Besides, even if you win with reasoning, what will you gain? Can you find back the person you lost?
“The Little Prince” says: A ceremony makes this day different from the past.
Why do girls like surprises, why do they like holidays? They don’t love the holidays themselves, they love the feeling of being loved and cared for.
In the routine days, if you care about her feelings, tend to her moods, occasionally surprise her, then there will be fewer girls afraid of marriage in this world, and there will be more laughter and joy.
Respect a Woman’s Choices, Not Overly Interfere
For various reasons, modern society is very unfair to girls.
Marriage should be “you leave your home, I leave mine, and we form a new home together.” But looking at the current situation in China: most girls are accustomed to the lifestyle and habits of the man’s large family.
Girls can enjoy themselves at their parents’ home, but they must not be lazy at their in-laws’ home. What’s more, sometimes they don’t even have control over their own bodies.
Instead of living uncomfortably and compromising after marriage, it’s better not to marry, be happily single, at least you can make decisions for yourself. Who would want to enter such a “walled city”? Who would want to have such a marriage?
Girls are not naturally afraid of marriage. If you can give them respect, care, attention, and importance, where is the fear of marriage and the non-marriage advocates?
She just wants to be herself and can be herself.
Every woman plays many roles in society, she is a daughter, a wife, a daughter-in-law, a mother, but many men have forgotten that they are also themselves.
Indulge yourself, live well for yourself in the future, spend the rest of your life pleasing yourself.
Women can thrive in the workplace, or return to the family, but all these must come from the heart, must be our own decisions.
Between spouses, husbands should respect their wives’ choices, give each other enough space and freedom, only then can the marriage be more harmonious and happy.
With the continuous development of society, women’s status in society is getting higher, and their sense of independence is getting stronger.
Men loving women is not limited to material things, but it’s about giving them enough freedom and support so they can fully utilize their abilities and talents.
Patiently listen to a woman’s voice, let her chatter, let her ramble, let her know she is cared for and protected, give her a platform where she can speak “nonsense” anytime; pay attention to a woman’s emotional needs, provide her with matching emotional value, let her know she is valued, cared for, and feel secure as a little princess every moment; respect a woman’s choices, do not blindly adhere to traditional views, treating your wife as an accessory, as a tool for housework.
This is the reason for a man’s happy marriage.
Remember, in the vast majority of marriage families, the happiness index of this family depends on the happiness index of the wife.
Samuel said: The success of marriage depends on two people, but one person can make it fail.
In the long journey of marriage, both husband and wife are partners in this “marriage” company, not appendages to each other’s lives. They must learn to respect, understand, and love each other; only then can this marriage go further, and the family be happier.