Some say, “Men’s mouths are deceitful ghosts.”
This applies to women as well.
Some people only talk the talk without taking action. Both men and women do this. In the world of emotions, some things are gender-neutral. It all depends on the individual. Just as there are scumbag men, there are also scumbag women.
Therefore, whether you’re a man or a woman, you need the ability to discern people. Choosing a partner who truly suits you is key to finding happiness. Women can’t give you these three things. No matter how much they say they love you, it’s not genuine. Men, don’t be clueless.
Inner recognition and commitment.
What does this mean?
Simply put, it’s when a woman deep down believes you are her prince charming, her ideal husband. She willingly binds you together as a unit to face the future together.
A woman who can provide you with this is showing real love.
So, if a woman only sweet talks you, showers you with affection, and acts cute, it’s not genuine love.
For men, it’s crucial to distinguish between superficial gestures and the core of a relationship.
True love is about facing the future together. The future is uncertain for all of us. Choosing a partner means wanting a companion.
The best relationships operate on this principle.
If you’re with someone just to gain something from them without giving anything in return, your intentions are wrong. Love becomes irrelevant in such a scenario.
Therefore, men should test women from this perspective.
Emotional and mental belonging, and loyalty in relationships.
This is the most basic requirement.
When a woman truly loves you, she provides a sense of belonging both emotionally and mentally. You belong to each other entirely. This is when you are truly together, as a unit.
But some women are not loyal in relationships. They may have a boyfriend but still entertain flirtatious behavior with others, like those so-called “queen bees.”
For men, encountering such women should prompt an immediate exit rather than attempting to change them. These women are restless and won’t settle down with you.
When men choose a woman, their main goal is to lead a stable life together.
After all, when we lead a simple life, we have more time and energy to focus on other aspects of life. This is how we truly manage our lives.
Therefore, if a woman fails to provide a sense of emotional and mental belonging, it’s not genuine love. Because the basic requirement of love is loyalty.
If she can’t fulfill this, her love for you is questionable.
Determination and action for mutual growth.
This is hard to assess but should be felt.
A woman should make it clear to a man that she is willing to build a future together. Only through mutual effort can true happiness be achieved.
At the same time, both individuals can grow in the long run.
What men seek in love is essentially this. For a woman to show she genuinely loves a man, she must be willing to commit and work towards a shared future.
Hence, it boils down to examining a woman’s actions.
For instance, some women claim they will marry a man and stand by him through thick and thin. But as soon as the man faces a slight setback in his career or encounters a problem, the woman starts considering a breakup.
Ask yourself, does such a woman truly love the man?
Clearly, this is not genuine love.
Therefore, men should test women from this perspective to determine if their love is sincere.
Emotions are not that complicated.
It’s about striving together and building a future as a team. It’s about enjoying the simple moments.
You don’t need to say “I love you” every day or create extravagant gestures. True love lies in the details, not in flashy displays.
Both men and women can judge if their partner truly loves them based on these aspects.
If the love is pretense, it’s better to cut ties early. This is the correct choice.
In relationships, the first thing to do is protect yourself.
Both men and women should learn to protect themselves. If you can’t even protect yourself, you won’t be able to manage your relationships well. Ultimately, it all comes down to you.